Live your life

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away they were meant to be there...to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be but you lock eyes with them and you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.
And sometimes things happen to you at the time that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair, but in reflection of you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would never would realize your potential, strength, will power, or heart.
Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of luck. Illness, love, and lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all accrue to test limits of your soul.

Without these small tests, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to know where safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.
The people you meet affect your life. The successes and the downfalls that you experience can create whom you are and the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact they are probably the most poignant and important ones.
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart to.If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but also because they are teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to little things. Make everything count.
Appreciate everything you possibly can, for you may never experience it again.Talk to people whom you have never talked to before and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love, break free, and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have ever right to. Tell yourself you're a great individual and believe in yourself, no on else will believe in you. Create your own life and then go out and live it.

The T2’s And Non T2’s

The techno teens or the t2’s are those who would seldom socialize with their friends in school or college, but, hey hey hey, wait a minute----- who said that they r the losers…..when it comes to the cyber world they rule!!!---with late night chats n 24 hr online status they are truly the most socialized persons of this world…a techno teen can easily be found totally unaware of their surroundings trapped in that head phone and loads of virtual friend’s who would help them in coming out of any and almost every situation by giving their expert views and ideas on topics rite from finding ways not to get bored to planning on how to get that perfect match….such people perhaps can easily be impressed and be friends with and most of them are over bore’ians….but remember they’ll always have more friends on that networking sites and all those messenger lists than u……….


The non techno teens are perhaps one of the most outgoing personalities in this world….they r the one’s who would impress u not by their wits but by their sheer outlook towards life and that eye to eye talk …they too have their profiles on such sites but they would rather be spending their life with friends rather than being bound by that 5 meter long wire of a headphone…..such people have love interests but somehow they are happy with their life as it is and getting drunk with friends on weekends….these are the one's who would be the most social of the lot and convivial in their nature….they will never have altercations with their friends n would mold themselves in almost any situation….self confidence drives the lives of such people….
As far as I go…I guess I am pretty much a t2 category guy…but I guess I have been able to find ample reasons to take u turn,a and i m working towards being a non techno teen….
As far as u people go…. The choice is entirely yours :P

Kindly Excuse me!!

This is something that i came up with a few days ago. A sought of rap, that is if you rap it!!!
So here it goes...........

It all began during my second year,
looking for happiness and not a drop of tear.
There you were owning a pretty smile,
never thought i would see something so pretty in my life.
Without thinking i jumped into this dark hole,
never thought i would start hating my own soul.
Decided to give her this rectangular thing,
only to be told that there is a "K" missing.
This ain't a song i would like to sing,
the pretty girl i liked has gone missing.

Now three years down the lane,
for her i aint gonna be insane.
So kindly leave my way,
this aint no child's play,
my friendship is not for free,
so kindly excuse me......

Things that we are yet to learn...

Well probably the last year(2008) would go down as a time full of contradictions, altercations, controversies, double crossing, break ups(not only for companies like Lehman brothers but also many others!! :P), swindling, cheat, fraud and what not....right from the mortgage crisis in 2007 to companies going broke to satyam fraud But the most unforgettable of all these were the terror attacks in mumbai. Though i do respect the integrity of our nation having over 100 languages and diverse cultures, its events like these which help to maintain that feeling of indian-ness among people. Perhaps with north indians being beaten up in Mumbai and the kashmir issue re surfacing in every few years this country would have had its autonomous states just like the soviet union had these events not happened. I mean who knows about the leaders of the indian struggle, or how the parliament is run, or the fact that the recent elections were for selecting MLA's and who all were selected and so on and so forth, all that people(younger generation)remembers is that shahrukh had a shoulder operation while there is a cat fight going on between Katrina and Kareena

( Thank you India Tv!!).



But does anyone know that the UN gives free rice to poor people for every correct answer to the questionnaire on its website (it has donated over 59 billion grains till date) ...all we know is that answering a questionnaire on facebook will help in finding our compatibility with that soulmate of ours...neways..Please do visit this website------
http://www.freerice.com/index.php


And how can we forget girls being beaten up by Mutalik's Ram Sena, they do deserve the beating they got after all this aint a democracy..who said right to freedom is a fundamental right..Even lord Rama,if he exists(i am not an atheist but i am an agnostic), would be ashamed at these acts.





The other side of opulence- While 4 of the world's richest persons are from India, 80%( and this is out of 100%, no kidding) of the Indians still earn less than 2$ a day, a report from the world bank!! For all those who still dont believe the authenticity of these claims can perhaps make a visit to the M-Block market of Delhi( and for all the guys, please dont go there for the obvious reasons :P) and visit chandni chowk or perhaps the suburbs of greater noida.
Then the recent controversy regarding the slumdog controversy, i do understand that perhaps the word 'dog' could have offended some people...mainly because they could not understand that the word comes from another word 'underdog', but why do we have these insecurities that the world would get to know about india as a country of slums( as if it earlier didnt) . It's more shameful to have them than to rather show them.


The mumbai slums have grown to be the largest in asia...woohoo we have finally beaten the chinese at something!!
The fact that bites all those who oppossed this movie is that a foreigner has gone to a 'no man's land' and shown us a mirror which always faced the other way.
I know that "koi country perfect nahi hoti, use perfect banana padta hai" but the fact is are we doing anything to accompalish that state of so called perfection??